Unless you're in your early 20s.
I'm 29 and quite honestly I'm at the point where I'm looking for husband material.
It makes it nearly impossible when society thinks that when a woman wants to 'hang out' it automatically means 'hook up'. I think that only means that when you're in your early 20s and feel free to jump anything that moves at any given moment.
I know guys my age that seem to follow this term and think it's ok.
I don't think it's ok at all. In fact I frown upon it. These guys get 'tagged' and 'checked' off my list for long term potentials.
As it is, I'm already extremely jaded. I have yet to be proven wrong that a male is worth my time and effort.
My advice to a guy, who wants to 'hook up' is to go after young 20somethings....and make sure that you get yourself checked on a weekly basis. Who knows what STDs may linger. And while I'm at it.....Good luck with all that.
Your writing is very entertaining! Your musings make me very thankful I'm not single out there anymore...lol. Don't give up yet, there really are some good men out there, you just have to be patient:-)
ReplyDeleteI just hope the story of the jerky, immature, live-in guy was not about you...frightful!!
Kay